Independence Day Reflections
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As Independence Day approaches, I find myself thinking about independence in a slightly different way. Not the red, white, and blue kind (though I love a good fireworks display), but the kind that shows up in how we learn, work, and move through the world.
Some people love group projects. Others, like me, tend to cringe at the memory of them.
Back in college, it felt like every other assignment was a group project. And for me, they were frustrating more often than not. I always felt like I ended up doing more than my share, while the grade was split equally across the board. At the heart of it, I realize now, it wasn’t just about fairness, it was about standards. I had high expectations for the work I submitted, and I wasn’t willing to lower the bar just to keep the peace.
So I did more. I took control. I worked independently whenever I could. Because if the success or failure of the project was going to rest on someone’s shoulders, I wanted them to be mine.
Getting Started
Fast forward to today, and I spend my days coaching students, many of whom thrive in group settings. It’s actually fascinating to watch. For some students, group projects are a game-changer. The accountability, the shared responsibility, the knowledge that someone else will be relying on their contribution—those things don’t stress them out the way they did for me. In fact, they often do better work when they’re not going it alone.
Maybe it’s personality. Maybe it’s trust. Maybe it’s just how we’re wired.
Some students are natural collaborators. Others prefer solitude. Some need the quiet of their own space to process and create, while others feed off the energy of a team. And honestly? Both are valid. Both can lead to incredible results. But knowing which one works best for you, that’s where the magic starts.
As for me? I’ve come to appreciate collaboration a lot more than I used to. Especially when it’s intentional, balanced, and respectful of everyone’s strengths. I still love my solo time (hello, writing in quiet coffee shops), but I’ve learned that sometimes the best ideas come from conversations, not just contemplation.
So on this Independence Day, I’m celebrating both: the freedom to work the way that suits us best and the wisdom to know when to lean on others.
How about you? Do you prefer working in a group or flying solo?
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A Note from Happy Spaces
Our goal is simple: to add value to your life. If you think this project will be helpful, here are some steps to set yourself up for success:
Estimate how long it will take—then double it. Giving yourself extra time helps reduce stress.
Schedule it on your calendar for the week ahead. Setting a specific date increases follow-through.
Break it up if it will take more than an hour. Tackling it in smaller steps makes it more manageable.
Make a list of every action needed before you start. A clear plan helps keep you on track.
Do what works for you—you don’t have to complete every part, just what adds value to your life.
Find an Accountability Partner—having support makes it easier to stay committed.
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Sincerely,
Sarah Weingarten
Meet Sarah
As the oldest of nine kids with two working parents, I grew up juggling many responsibilities at home. Organization and time management became my lifeline amidst the chaos.
I attended the Cornell Hotel School and pursued my childhood dream of working in the hospitality industry. In 2016, I launched Happy Spaces, combining my passion for structure and efficiency with helping others.
I love working with students to develop essential organizational, time management, and study skills. These skills empower them to reach their full potential, build confidence, and create a future they feel good about.