Not Making a Decision, Is a Decision
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PROJECT OF THE WEEK
Have you ever pushed off a decision so long that the decision just… made itself?
Yeah, me too.
It usually starts small. There’s an event coming up—maybe a conference or a dinner or something that sounds kind of worth it, but you’re not 100% sure. You think, “Maybe I’ll go. I just need to check a few things… see if the babysitter is available… figure out if I can move that meeting…”
And then you don’t. You don’t check your calendar. You don’t text the sitter. You don’t make a decision. You just sort of... let it float.
Until—surprise!—the sitter’s booked. Or the ticket price went up. Or your schedule filled in. And suddenly, you’re not going anymore. Not because you decided not to go, but because the window closed.
That’s the trap.
I’ve found myself here more times than I care to admit. I wait too long to RSVP. I put off launching a project because I’m not totally sure what direction to take it. I hold off on making a call because I don’t feel ready—and then, eventually, the moment passes.
And here’s the truth I’ve had to remind myself (and my clients) over and over:
Not making a decision is a decision. It’s a decision by default.
Getting Started
It’s sneaky, because it feels passive. Safe. Like you're buying yourself time. But more often than not, all you're doing is giving your power away. You let the clock run out, and suddenly life decides for you.
Sometimes that works out fine. But sometimes, it doesn’t. And you’re left feeling frustrated or disappointed, not because of the outcome, but because you didn’t own the choice.
So lately, I’ve been trying to pay more attention to those lingering, half-decided decisions. I ask myself, “If I had to choose right now, yes or no, what would I do?” And then I try to act on it. Even if it’s imperfect. Even if I’m still a little unsure.
Because moving forward with intention, rather than drifting by default, just feels better. Even when the choice is hard.
What about you? Have you ever found yourself caught in the trap of not deciding?
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Let’s make progress together—because great results start with great planning!
A Note from Happy Spaces
Our goal is simple: to add value to your life. If you think this project will be helpful, here are some steps to set yourself up for success:
Estimate how long it will take—then double it. Giving yourself extra time helps reduce stress.
Schedule it on your calendar for the week ahead. Setting a specific date increases follow-through.
Break it up if it will take more than an hour. Tackling it in smaller steps makes it more manageable.
Make a list of every action needed before you start. A clear plan helps keep you on track.
Do what works for you—you don’t have to complete every part, just what adds value to your life.
Find an Accountability Partner—having support makes it easier to stay committed.
We understand that building new habits and systems can be challenging, but you don’t have to do it alone. For additional support, visit HappySpacesBySarah.com and let’s make organizing and planning easier together.
Creating a life you don't need a vacation from! ®
Sincerely,
Sarah Weingarten
Meet Sarah
As the oldest of nine kids with two working parents, I grew up juggling many responsibilities at home. Organization and time management became my lifeline amidst the chaos.
I attended the Cornell Hotel School and pursued my childhood dream of working in the hospitality industry. In 2016, I launched Happy Spaces, combining my passion for structure and efficiency with helping others.
I love working with students to develop essential organizational, time management, and study skills. These skills empower them to reach their full potential, build confidence, and create a future they feel good about.